Dupid Dupid Dupid

So the frenemy that I was whining about last year decided to contact me a few months back now. We've been corresponding. At first I was over the moon happy. Now, I'm exhausted from kissing her ass. I never know what to say to her, actually it doesn't matter what I say to her, she takes it whatever way she wants too. And she seems to always want to take things badly.

I honored her nephew with the best compliment he could get, I told her he was just like her. She got angry, offended even stopped corresponding for a while. I had to pry it out of her, that she was pissed. Later, I actually cried over it out of frustration. I was like what is wrong with this woman? How could she possible take gee - your nephew is just like you! to mean he's an asshole? I'd be really pleased if my nephew took after me. I can see how f*cked up her esteem is. I used to want to just fill her up with compliments and support. Now, I realize I've given out what I've wanted in return. And I'm completely at empty, can't give no more excuses, can't manufacture any more justifications, I just want her to get real.

Anyway, she also promised to take down her stupid blog. I didn't even ask, we were talking about trust and how hard it is for me to trust and she volunteered to take it down. So, anyway I just checked a couple days ago. Blogs still up, surprise surprise.

What is wrong with her?
What's wrong with me for caring so much?